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Even of you are your best man not every woman will like you, so you cant control how others perceive you. And this step by step plan comes across as if its a cosmo article. Im sorry to say its not authentic in my view with how this site came.
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Life goes on so time will tell! You know, after all this time.
I use to look at the challenges I needed to make this change as scary, full of fear. Logun I understand what you are saying. However, this statement is a bit off: See I am with you on not expecting the outside world to make us happy or validated. This applies to women. But, just are there are men out there who are assholes by nature, and have nothing to do with me whatsoever, there are women who are bitches. Denying this is not denying responsibility for your own self validation.
Assuming responsibility for how others act is just insane and not an opportunity for growth as I have no say in the matter. I do accept responsibility for what I can control. It takes two people to have an interaction, not just one. So the burden does not lie only on me for that matter. Is it my fault for approaching someone who I thought was open and friendly and turned out to be mean to others including myself?
This kind of thinking leads you to blame yourself for how others act all the time, when it really has nothing to do with you. This is not about blaming others, but neither is it about blaming myself. By the way, maybe this is not the space to write about this, but in the beginning when you started out I thought your message was refreshing, but what has driven me away from the site is the sales letter feel and free sex massage sex in the newsletter and articles.
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But even then, you could still ask yourself — why am I approaching this woman? And learn from. She might be a beautiful, loving, and strong woman but the fact that you were being needy at any level pushed her over the edge. This includes me. Or was there a something you could take responsibility for and learned from? Thank you for talking this out with me. The key is confidence! As my mother use to say I could walk in to a bar and pick up a women or two in an hour but my brother could not pick up his feet!
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It definitely is a lonely path. Like you said no one will come to rescue you, or shower you with unconditional approval and validation, nor is it their responsibility. The problem is that PUA can generate attraction in all or many women, if she is not attracted to you, then you are not following the steps or method, you are bad! Logun, if you tell these guys it was his fault to approach a woman, by the look on her face, then closing them such an important opportunity.
If I do not approach her, not that the other side, inside of. I take my responsibility. Sometimes fault, if, with this girl I run out of things to say, it was my fault for not knowing how to lead the conversation.
Yeah, maybe I was not very funny when I met her, does not generate enough to share my own fun with. We do not play with boulder strip clubs, we are not going the way PUA, just try to be every day the greatest men that women can be and can Total fuck up needs a good woman help but be naturally attracted to us because exudamos confidence, charisma and charm for the which they are drawn.
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GREAT point my friend. My two cents: I noticed one thing really important while aproaching and trying to meet women all of this time. Your feelings are countagious. Sometimes we are feeling bad, weird, and after aproach some random woman these feelings are transmited to her, who feels weird and act bicthy to get rid of you.
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